If you've been following my blog from a few years ago, I sometimes write about a girlfriend of mine who is like a soul sister to me. We always talk about matters of the heart, about faith, issues, insecurities and our conversation always end up with positive vibes and I really love that about our friendship. Recently she started dating again (which I am so happy for) and this time, I notice the vibe is a bit different.
In our conversation, she talks about the relationship as a 2-way communication instead of only talking about what she wants. Of course, from the eyes (or heart) of someone who has been broken-hearted before, she takes caution in choosing a life partner, to the point of being paranoid sometimes. This time, she says she wants to enjoy this progress and she wants to add values in her life and her partner's life to be a better person for the both of them and others in the future. Seriously, I have never heard her talking about considering adding values to her partner's life because it has always been about her (and I don't blame her for that).
Gosh, it blew my mind, honestly. I pray she finds happiness and contentment in this one. She deserves the best. I haven't seen her (and the rest of my girlfriends) for months now and I hope I can be in KL soon! I miss having the luxury to plan the day(s) and go anywhere and do anything on my own. Pray for me ok?